This past week brought me some heavy doses of perspective:
- A $50.00 lesson in asking for and accepting help that is free.
- A nation coming together to support a little girl, a worthy cause, and a man’s dream.
- A walk where I failed to realize the power of tone and word choice.
- The inspiration of faith, strength, and a smile by a friend’s daughter facing a challenging adversity.
Perspective is one of my favorite topics about which to write because it is simply one of the easiest things to lose sight of. The problems and casualties of our day rush to the forefront of our mind, blocking our vision of just how great we have it. As a result, we become consumed by these “pressing” visions, complain to anyone who will listen, and spin a web of negativity that spirals us downward toward a feeling of languishing.
What if we took a moment to realize we do not have it so bad? What if we took a moment to realize we do not have to go it alone? What if we took a moment to realize it should not always be about us? What if we took a moment to have faith, be strong, and smile through our trying moments?
“Fear is easier than faith, so most people go there first.” A friend of mine shared this wisdom with me on Thursday. I suppose it is also easier to complain and easier to be negative than to face the situation head on, smile through it, and grow from it. I know this because I am still a work in progress there.
It is more than talking a great game. It is walking, living, and modeling that lifestyle. But, I left this week inspired. Thanks to two young girls.
The first is Leah. Most of you know her story. Her father is Devon Still of the Cincinnati Bengals. If you do not know their story, just click here, and soak in the inspiration.
The second is the daughter of a friend. Most of you likely do not know her story. On Thursday, she went to the hospital complaining of headaches. Doctors discovered a brain tumor and spinal fluid buildup on her brain. An emergency surgery followed to drain the fluid, and on Friday, she underwent a five hour surgery to remove the tumor at the base of her brain. Yesterday morning, the neurosurgeon informed her and her family that no more tumors were showing.
She has shown remarkable faith and strength in her healing journey. As I have remained updated on this story, her steadfast belief and loving smile have served as a constant source of inspiration. Please continue to pray for this young woman! I know her family would appreciate it.
We all face tough circumstances, but proper perspective and faith bring a wealth of healing to our daily struggles. Fear is easy. Faith is not. But this week, I learned that with strong faith and the help of your friends, miraculous things can and will happen.
The only way to get beyond a tough situation is through it, then learn from it.
Why not do it with a smile?
Bring your best today!
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